Month: Jul 2025

  • Back from 3 weeks abroad

    As is usually the case after an extended trip like this, I feel exhausted and crave the peace of home. I was in Poland, before heading to Turkey, then home for a week, then back away for three weeks to Turkey and Poland again. There was a mixture of coaching and drinking but mainly just…

  • How to get a girlfriend

    Amidst all the manosphere dickwaving and technical back and forth in the daygame community, its easy to lose sight of the fact that most men are looking for normality: they just want to find a girlfriend to develop a life with. What advice would I give to a man of any age to achieve this…

  • The death of illusion vis-a-vis the death of love

    So I broke up. What have I learned that I can pass on without being too mawkish about it. Well, here goes. The shift in energy in my relationship was imperceptible, at first, but with the passage of time, I saw how much I ignored the clarity these small moments afforded me which represented the…