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Author: BroodingSea – Daygame and Dating Coach

  • 2025 Daygame Review

    A bit of a blast from the past these things aren’t they? The good old days, where steadfast devotees pored over their stats, collating their approaches, numbers, socials, dates, lays and analytical trends, success and fuck ups into an epic refection mere moments from the chime of midnight on the dawn of the New Year.…

  • Lay Report – Belorussian with a twist

    Yes, it’s a lay report but not a recent one. Come to think of it, this is the first lay report I have written for some time, but it actually dates back to February 2024, and it’s also one I didn’t broadcast from the rooftops with the obligatory +1 on X.  So….Broody got another +1…

  • Who to listen to in Daygame

    I wanted to write a post aimed at new guys (old timers too) because the landscape has changed both in daygame and relationship advice on X over the last 5 years. I’ve become a bit fatigued and cynical with some of it. Back when it all started there was a real corner of characters with…

  • Lets do a daygame v football one

    A footballer is someone who plays football. Anyone can play football. A Premiership footballer is someone who plays football at an elite level, and has inherent traits as well as some honed traits that he worked on directly himself and which were further developed via the expertise of his coaching team, whether that be fitness,…

  • The false summit of Mount Daygame

    Question for you. What do you think when you hear stories of guys who have developed a reputation in daygame as being a skilled player, someone who gets results and is regularly dating* up? Let’s drill down a little and define what I mean by this. If he’s a male 7, then assume he’s habitually…

  • Coaching testimonial

    The following is a coaching testimonial from a client in Australia. He was kind enough to write a separate piece which is viewable on the forum (see image). Most of my daygame coaching now is quite selective. I generally only work with men where I can say to myself ‘I’ve been there, so I think…

  • Count Orlok

    I remember going to see Nosferatu, the film by Robert Eggers with my ex-girlfriend. I was excited to see this as I love the folklore themes which embody this directors work. We ended up at the Newcastle Cineworld for the late Friday night showing. The experience was appalling and why I’ll never go to another…

  • What are beginner, intermediate and advanced daygamers?

    Let’s start at the beginning A beginner daygamer is someone who has three observable traits: 1. Approach anxiety to a level that stunts and deforms the interaction. It’s their go-to mindset. Rooted in the fear of rejection as well as relying on largely scripted routine, or crude attempts at verbal attraction. They exist in their…

  • BroodingSea Daygame Review

    Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime. This is what I found after reading and studying BroodingSea’s Daygame book. I can now say that this is the product that made me score the most results ever. It took…

  • Back from 3 weeks abroad

    As is usually the case after an extended trip like this, I feel exhausted and crave the peace of home. I was in Poland, before heading to Turkey, then home for a week, then back away for three weeks to Turkey and Poland again. There was a mixture of coaching and drinking but mainly just…