Exit Strategy

As I sit here now in my nice apartment overlooking the Polish capital city I am feeling slightly fucking exhausted and tired. Yet another night of negligible sleep. A girl I met in January came over late last night and we had sex but she knew I was exhausted and wanted to sleep. Afterwards, at around 1am, she called her taxi but asked for it to arrive 15 minutes later ‘so we could talk’. I let her know this was unacceptable and told her to wait outside so that I could try (and fail) to sleep.

This detail let me to ruminate on several points and caused me to chew-over some ideas in those small hours chasing sleep; it motivated me to ask a hard question and face a hard reality, and put down on paper my essential exit strategy from Game/Daygame over the next 18 to 24 months.

The following represents a precis of a weekends’ discussion with John Bodi.

1. Anything that is too good for you is bad for you. Immersing yourself in this life of travel, meeting women, drinking and partying is not good for you long-term. Especially for someone like me who is comfortable in a nightgame/club environment.
2. I am realistic about the women I date and sleep with and those I can realistically form a pair-bond with. I have slept with many beautiful young women over the last 18 months and maintain regular contact with some of them. Most of them will be excellent wives and mothers to a greater or lesser degree. But not to me. Because they are too young. I feel absolutely comfortable with letting these girls go on an emotional level because we are living in two different worlds. A man in his late-30s cannot date, impregnate and marry a woman in her early-20s. Should you attempt this folly, then enjoy that few years of happiness before the fires start and you experience hypergamy writ-large in all its glory. This is a fact. If your male ego convinces you that you can date a woman of this age and convert this into a long-term partnership then this represents a failing on your side and I urge you to examine this methodology again, for this is vanity. This said, I would not be surprised if some of these younger women I have met (and will meet) will stay in my life as friends for some time.
3. If you got into Game late, like me, then be absolutely ruthless with what you want out of it. Because you can easily sell your soul (think about what I mean by this, long and hard). I aim to simply find an attractive and feminine woman aged 27-28 with no children, perform due-diligence and then settle down. The age-dynamic and Chaos Index between women in their early 20s and mid-to-late 20s means they are effectively two different species. For a man in his mid-40s, entering into a pair-bond with a 29-31 year old is a win. If she has no children but wants them, if she will enrich your life and that of your children, then you have beaten the house. Cash the chips, walk out. Never look back (more on this in a later article). As males, we have allowed Game and Redpill orthodoxy to corrupt our ability to think practically, to reality weave and ignore the wood for the trees. We think that because we have game and understand women that we are in control of the project. We aren’t. Young women, their vacillations, dreams, impulses and mistakes, their changing desires and needs in life are real. What will happen when the penny drops and you turn 50, as she hits 25 and has that ‘what the fuck have I done’ moment as she trains in the gym and realises you cannot give the life comfort and future-proof that all the men in her age cohort, can? That 35 year old player who then opens her in the mall late that week has just destroyed your life…
4. I will stop measuring stats once I have reached 1000 sets. It is a token number and represents the figurative ascent of some small Game Munro, of sorts. I have no wish to continue to issue blow by blow tweet updates on my interactions.