July Review

I have been doing less written summaries of late preferring instead to catalogue my thoughts insane ramblings of a 40-year old adventurer via YouTube with a view to releasing a book in 12-18 months that will detail some of my experiences but more importantly, my methods and thoughts on this thing we call Daygame. Having written a PhD I understand the importance of acquiring data and compiling research well before you put pen to paper. Hopefully, I should have some interesting ideas to present to the community once I take stock of my 5 years of field experience. Expect it in late 2023/early 2024. It will be my one and only contribution. But it’s probably worth adding my thoughts this month as it has certainly been an eventful one.

I have spent 18 days of July across three Polish cities and have had pretty good time. Girls, beers, sightseeing (ha!) and fatigue. Enough chit-chat: to the stats.

56 sets and 4 lays (3 SDL).

The uncomfortable truth

The more advanced you get at daygame, the more you instinctive you become at recognising women amenable to approach methods. Two of my three daygame lays were with girls ‘travelling through’ the city that week (the first being a cute 20 year old Polish instamodel-type and the second a Australian tourist. Both were hot girls dressed in tiny shorts and crop-top type clothing; both walking along the street with that laconic energy imperceptible to most men untrained in the art. In such situations the desire for experience in a woman has been catalysed. What can be more romantic for a woman than delicious servings of new indulgence and experience? A new city, a new street, a new coffee shop, a new energy – all contribute to new emotional states in women – an excitement and happiness. And then add into this mix a carefully structured street approach, normal, grounded and masculine. Trustworthy. A light-hearted and fun interaction ensues; all the trust-metrics implicitly and explicitly checked off: he seems like a fun, cool guy. Social media details are exchanged and dates are made. And so the seduction dance begins and the need for carefully structured escalation (too much alcohol or too much horniness can ruin the dance). Sex happens and, sometimes – a connection is made. In other situations the girl is happy with the compartmentalised experience – and she chooses to box-off that little joyful, indulgent and naughty experience and forget about you. This is what ‘easy game’ is. Good observational skills, the ability to pique emotional states, convey key male behaviour on the correct wavelength and use time served methods to bring the whole dance to a conclusion.

#1 Ukrainian 8 SDL

I spotted a leggy, tanned blonde walking through Rynek. She was around 50m in front of me but I instantly knew she was a top-end girl. She veered off into Starbucks and I followed inside. Luck was on my side. I dropped into the queue directly behind her. She ordered two pieces of cheesecake (active observation – this turned out to be my open) and a coffee. I ordered my flat white. She left the restaurant and sat outside. I sat in front of her (my back to her and opened my Kindle and sipped on my coffee). Around ten minutes passed and she got up and walked off down the high-street. I got up and waited a few minutes for a nice bubble to open among the pedestrians and went in with the Cheesecake Open. She was a gorgeous blonde Ukrainian. A beauty consultant who’d been in Poland for 4 years. She had that combination of ash blonde hair and hazel brown eyes. She was friendly and polite (instigating a handshake). Numbers were exchanged and we met for drinks that night. A rainstorm added a certain romantic energy to the first hour of our date as we stood under the canopy and sipped our cocktails. The escalation was very polarised and she was happy to play a pure feminine role. There were few challenges to bring her back and we just made the hotel bar at 22:59 to order a bottle of Riesling to take upstairs. She was an extremely beautiful woman with a superb body. She left at 5am. I never saw her again.

#2 Tiny blonde spinner 8 SDL

I had been out for a walk in Warsaw and hadn’t had much luck. A few tepid rejections. No real leads. I was sat outside Starbucks and saw her leave the cafe with her little suitcase and extra large coffee. She was dressed in green gym-shark. She was tiny, pert and exceptionally pretty. We went on an instant date and sat in a bar just around the corner from roywalkerpua apartment (where he had kindly allowed me to stay). The rain poured down and we sat next to each other. The energy and was there. We left after that drink as she had to meet a friend but agreed to come back and meet me. Two hours later, she was back and within 10 minutes was naked on Roy’s sofa. Sadly, he had already long since christened it. She left Poland that week for a round-the-world trip.

#3 Australian SDL

I had been faffing on in my hotel. I got up late but dragged myself to the hotel gym and did a bit of cardio. I was then duly notified that they had cancelled my booking.com because they had overbooked the hotel the previous night. So they fucked me over and I had to pack and leave. I quickly booked a little 3* place that I quite like and made my way out of the hotel. Initial frustration replaced by a feeling of serendipity as I saw her walking toward me, head in her phone gazing at a map. She was wearing tiny jean shorts, DM boots, a white crop-top and looked incredible with muscular tanned thighs and a flat stomach. I had an immediate desire to speak to her, but I didn’t:

YOU STUPID FUCKING WEAK PIECE OF SHIT GET BACK AND OPEN HER

With my bag on my shoulder I strode back up the street and caught up with her. She was instantly terrified and wide-eyed. I immediately diffused the situation with a mixture of humour and indirection. It turned out that some Polish daygamer had royally creeped her out not 10 minutes ago. Thankfully, the energy balanced itself out and the set developed nicely, leading to an Instagram close. We arranged to meet that night for drinks. I had a sense she was full of excitement. She met me on time and she was keen to try a pilsner so we grabbed a little bar in the Jewish Quarter. She was easy to get on with and had that confidence that so many men men (including me at times) mistake for obnoxious arrogance in western women. She had a really interesting upbringing and had been raised really well. I liked her. We kissed in the second venue. I correctly interpreted her character and simply stated to her,

“I want you to come back to my place and spend the night with me‘

She gave me a cheeky smile,

“OK“

No misdirection, no ‘I know a place’ (I hate this type of ‘game’ it’s insecure for the most part). Just a man who has carefully structured a date and piqued the necessary female energies so that when he says come back with me the girls wants to come back. This is the essence of carefully crafted seduction. We left for a vodka shot in a third venue and stopped off for a gin and tonic before heading into mine. We fell asleep around 2am. She had a great body and was a really nice girl, full of nice feminine energy and very keen to please. I enjoyed her company and hope to see her again.

#4 19 year old Poland girl

Leading directly on from #3 above I had to reluctantly get up at 7am to go see a Polish 19 year old I’d had 4 dates with over the last few days, but who now wanted sex with me before she had to leave on an 11am train that morning. It was another case of a girl requiring a number of dates to perform a little due diligence and create a dating framework in her mind to justify the sexual act. I briskly walked to her hotel by the train station and she came down to meet me dressed in tight leggings and tight top – showing off her DD breasts and shapely arse. She also told me that she had just been ‘opened’ by a Polish guy who had “done what you did but was a weirdo” (yeah – I bet you gave him your number). It was a simple case of into her bedroom, clothes off and boom. Two daygame lays in around 6 hours. I walked her to the train station and we had coffee and chatted on the platform as the train pulled up. She’s a really smart girl and has a good career ahead of her.

More complex expressions of Game

I had further dates with the virgin-model I met back in March. A legitimate head turner. She is a leggy brunette tennis player with amazing legs with a young Olga Kurylencko look about her. Her company is incredible – she is sharp as a razor and has a great sense of humour and really does love the teasing and banter. She tells me not to fuck up; that I have done better than most she’s gone on dates with. For her, she wants her mind excited just as much as her pussy. Given the distance between us, her overall desirability and the innate challenges of maintaining interest over text, there are challenges here – which means the communication must be centred on developing a more profound connection to one based merely on getting her into bed/sexualising (too much). This to me is where the real game is played. It is an orchestra of performance where you stand there long enough for her to scrutinise your character and behaviours before she eventually (hopefully) yields. Booking a cheap AirBNB and taking her to a bar literally next door for a ‘bounce back’ it is not (this is merely coarse-filtering, rug pulling and general misdirection).

I had dates with two other girls I met that trip and I am pleased to say that they are both girlfriend potentials despite being a little on the young side (20 and 24). The 20 year old has a smile that melts your heart. Great legs and is super natural. I like her and she seems keen. The other girl I managed to get back to mine and it turned out to be a near-miss – everything but the cocking.

I generated a few other decent leads, but Glengarries come and go. It is critical to get a couple of dates in early with these types of girls.

So, what have I learnt?

To be fair, it has just been a further reinforcement of the knowledge I already knew, but it has been nice to see and experience the execution of three different sub-methodologies across this month of July:

1. The ability to identify girls amenable to instant dates/same day dates/fast escalation and SDLs.
2. The ability to escalate with in a socially acceptable parameter for girls who do not fit the category above i.e. how to dance and not crush her toes.
3. The ability to display some patience with high-value beautful girls, date them organically and get to know them over multiple dates without losing the seduction energy and male-female framework.

The fact I have been required to adopt these methodologies (sometimes across three dates in a given day) confirms once more that good Game is levels. Quality girls can and do fuck quickly. Can you spot the signs? Sexy, highly desired women can also take some time. Can you spot these types of women? Some girls just need more time to work out if you are congruent with the picture they want you to be. Can you retain this congruence over time? It is great to utilise different skillets to explore a woman’s need and character and just enjoy the process regardless.

But above all, good game is the elicitation of key female emotional states. This is what my daygame is underpinned by and it is my recipe for success.

If you want to learn daygame with me in Poland (or anywhere for that matter) get in touch with me via my blog, Twitter or Telegram channels.

BroodingSea, July 2022