2022 Review

Sets: 679 (this includes 182 in the UK…see below)

Numbers: 126

Instagram: 136

Lays: 24 (approximately 1 lay per 28 approaches…but see below).

Number of trips abroad: 20

Number of coaching clients: 11

I started writing my review on 17th December and have picked away it, a few sentences here and there. I have been busy at home, relatively speaking with home improvements and just appreciating the down-time. I feel highly reluctant to do anymore daygame this month, but never say never. As you can see from the above, it’s been a long year indeed both in terms of coaching and travel. But I am pleased to be able to say that 2022 has been an incredible year for me in terms of the women I have met and the adventures I’ve been on. Across the four seasons of the year I have enjoyed some incredible experiences and built some amazing memories.

Notable Memories

This is not an exhaustive list, but a few things spring to mind.

Three 18 year Olds across the year including making love to one in a monastery.

Back to back SDLs with two ‘Insta models’ (one on RoyWalkers couch and a Ukranian in a different city a week or so later).

SDL with a gorgeous blonde that was a demo set for a student.

The fact that many of girls I have met I have remained friends with.

From a technical standpoint I have developed my daygame skills to a very high degree. I feel intensly comfortable, confident and creative. I don’t feel anxiety of any degree, nor do I feel any intimidation. Consequently, I have stripped away from my methodology all of the emotional support crutches (such as pre-approach, identifying low hanging fruit etc) and have hard-baked authenticity into my daygame.

As you can see from the numbers above, there is a relatively large number of sets (679) and a large number of lays (24) leading to an approach to lay ration of 1 in 28*. This relatively large body of data smooths out any aberrations and further reinforces my Unit of Analysis: that is, I should feel confident that (all things being equal) over a small, 3 day phase of daygame (e.g. 5 sets one day, 12 the next, and 12 the day after that, I will meet one girl who I will sleep with within that window of opportunity, or at a later date as a consequence of pipeline management. The main takeaway from this (as I have mentioned in the past) is that I have full confidence in knowing that an off-day is meaningless as I zoom out slightly….

BUT

As with most things in life, important caveats and statements are often buttressed with complexity. The UK this year has been appalling for me. I slept with one girl here in the UK and even then she was Hungarian.

UK Sets: 182

UK Lays: 1

*Removing the UK data from my European data gives me a 1 in 20 approach to lay ratio (497 sets for 23 lays in Europe). Given the relatively large sample size (just shy of 500 sets) this is a remarkable ratio and represents a considerable improvement even on previous years. Much of this success is obviously built on a solid daygame foundation but an even more important consideration represents my pipeline management and dategame. These represent two aspects of the process equal to daygame in importance but rarely accorded the equivalence. I will be writing about the importance of these in my coming book.

With regard to the UK aberrations in the data. I have scratched my bald head and ruminated on this. In many cases I have acquired some very good UK leads, ran some very good game but the resulting apathy, lethargy, arrogance and disinterest with UK women has been brought into tighter focus than I would have dared consider across the course of 2022.

Over the last 3 years I have had some excellent results here on home soil. But this year more than any other I have come to see some real and emerging behavioural trends in UK women that make the overwhelming majority of girls in their 20s frankly undateable. By and large I think most British women are at dating option saturation point. They live their lives on Tinder and Instagram – micro-dosing on dopamine and attention whoring 100s of times per day. They are, for the most part, not without options and I know from speaking to some younger friends in the Game just how challenging it is to generate any form of adhesive with these women as they jump from flower to flower like some whore-bee. I know a couple of guys up here who don’t do much daygame because they still do well online, but a closer inspection of their results shows that even they are dating down. Guys I wing with get leads but they are just tooled endlessly for attention by girls with little interest to actually meet. Feed this malaise with the the up-tempo in social engineering whereby authorities and educational establishments are forcing the notion down girls throats that all men are ‘dangerous predators’ and that ‘staring at you as you travel on the metro is sexual assault’ has created a deeper issue whereby these drunk, obese and low IQ psychology students (Northern universities with perhaps the exception of Durham are just tertiary shite institutions catering to estate trash or moneyed-up fat southern girls) walk around the city centre with that hollowed-out middle-distance stare (don’t look at me). This coupled with their over reliance on clubs, alcohol, Tinder, Instagram, an inclination seeking out ‘accessory partners’ who are ‘Instagram and social-circle friendly’, and more generally a lack of femininity vis-a-vis feminism has created a social melting point which even I, despite seeing the writing on the wall a year ago, didn’t think we would reach so soon.

I do not want to give up on the UK across 2023 but my current mindset requires some significant work to try and determine how I can make it work here (again) given the issues (and likely some bad luck) I outline above. I’ve ran some good sets. generated all the right emotions. developed the conversation only to see multiple leads drop off. 180 sets isn’t necessarily a huge sample size. But for this I would have expected around 3 lays and a smattering of dates. It can’t all be down to bad luck or bad timing. Something has changed here.

Changes and Aims

From January to December I have been abroad at least once per month (sometimes twice per month) and during this time I managed to hold (probably in name only) a full-time job up until October whereafter I left on quite favourable terms. On reflection I got out just before as I was pushed and there appear to be a number of redundancies now in motion. So yes, my focus this year has been strongly on overseas and I have lost count the number of times the Immigration Control have scrutinised my passport stamps shaking their heads as they suggest I am dangerously close to my Schengen allowance. Reflecting back on my year, I have met a large number of women and I am still in touch with a significant number of them. This has always been one of my aims. To meet women to sleep with, but equally to enjoy the friendship whether we evolve romantically together on a long-term basic. I am very much open to the idea of a girlfriend and see this unequivocally as my central daygame aim for 2023. To this end I have a decent body of work in Poland and have a number of women who are long-term girlfriend potentials. With this comes the challenge to wean myself off my own dopamine addiction which is the love of the process – the art of daygame itself. The internal fire that burns to make things happen from scratch. To walk down a new street in a search for a woman who ignites something in you, to speak to her and date her and to eventually sleep with her – all from having the courage and skill and initiative to create something from that originating moment. It is this process that I love, but one which I need to move away from if the next stage of my life is to develop some true fulfilment.

A rather short reflective piece I admit. I didn’t want to get caught up in the detail too much (laziness) so this post will fail to reflect some of the rather excellent end of year summaries written by guys in the UK who have covered their own learning and experience of London and abroad across 2022.

BroodingSea, December 2022