Daygame season is here. It’s in full swing. All the “I saw you over there and I had to say hello to this girl that I saw with my friends as I sat with them over there” are coming out to stink up Ryneks and shopping centres in well trodden euro cities.

Mid-May is here and it’s been an exciting year so far and I just wanted to write up a pre-summer synopsis of where I’m at with my daygame. Well, I’m pretty excited about it. After a bit of a wobble last year when I thought about giving it up, I’ve got my mojo back and feel I’m gaming probably better than ever. I’ve been exploring some new cities to get away from the late adopter stink of GameGlobal/Thomas crown style bootcamps (guys who just wash up like jetsm and flotsm after the early adopters have done the leg work). It’s no secret that many cities are fucked now because of people like these and their online marketing. I’ve noticed it myself over the last two years eg Belgrade, Warsaw and many others are now jaded and spammed being recovery especially from May to September. This has led to some of us venturing further afield or even discovering some excellent cities hidden in plain site. I introduced Nick Krauser to one such city and we both agreed – it’s a bubble. Initial results were very good across the week we were there. I’m heading back “there” this week, but I won’t be writing about it – for the very real need to keep all the spammers, autistics, London nob-ends and mainstream coaches at bay.

Anyway. This is the me-show. Some leads

1. Hot little 19 year old I had an SDL with. Seems smitten, although I’m not.
2. Leggy blonde SDL from a few weeks back. Seeing her tomorrow.
3. Gorgeous ballet dancer. I’m smitten. She is less so. She’s interested, but distant. I think she’s just keeping herself centered until she knows my intent.
4. Leggy blonde 18 year old virgin. She seems really into me.
5. Another really hot 19 year old virgin who said said she came closer to giving me her virginity last week than anyone else. I hope this comes off. Demo set while coaching.
6. Another stunning blonde who seems head over heels with me. Another demo set.
7. Bit of a pattern emerging? Another really hot blonde 21 year old who again seems so invested and is desperate to see me.
8. Really long lead – Ecuadorian girl. Basically said she’s mine anytime I’m back in town.
9. Another really hot blonde who was a demo set. She is fully on and has booked a flight to see me in 2 weeks. Coming straight to my hotel.
10. There are several other leads which are all in strong Comms but not as advanced as the 7 touched on here (all of which I feel are set for +1) in the next 4 weeks.

So here are a sample of solid leads on the year. And the reality here is the overwhelming number of them 8s and 9s (x3 7s, x4 8s & x3 9s). Quite a few were seen by 2 of my coaching clients and a couple when I was with Nick Krauser).

This is admittedly a strong and unusual place to be where I have an excellent AAA tranche comprised of 7 excellent leads which are essentially high probability +1 leads and a tranche of BBB sub-prime slop with some likely surprises). The Broody daygame collateralised dating obligation is strong.

What do I put this down to? Well the answer is quite simply my mindset, my ability to  craft authentic daygame experiences and my commitment to the craft. Sounds dead simple doesn’t it? My daygame now feels even better than it has ever been. Everything seems so slowed down in set. I rarely feel pressured or phased. I always feel one step ahead of the interaction.
1. Opening is solid – ensuring I take the energy into green immediately.
2. Assumed familiarity – a critical means to build two of the most important emotions – Trust and Intrigue.
3. Running Attraction as a background process – I rarely ever do any Gen 1 old school crap on what they think drives attraction (touching their arms/hair etc) and find most of this advice just plainly outdated and creepy – a totally infantile understanding of what makes women tick. Most of my attraction work is done via eye contact, voice tone, narrative and through space. And it works because women I open tell me it does.
4. Cold reading skills – the development of an ability to create well designed, interesting, absurd or profound openings and carry this across the set.
5. Developing the Micro Date. Here is the art.

These are just extremely brief summaries of where I’m at with my daygame and why it’s working so consistently for me now. My open>micro date ratio is extremely high and this feeds into my approach to lay ratio which is currently around 1 in 15 – again absurdly high, but I’m in a far better position now to understand why it’s so high (see points 1 to 5 above).

BroodingSea, May 2026