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Author: BroodingSea – Daygame and Dating Coach

  • Daygame Failure this week

    So since the decline of the long format blogs and gritty personal stories that once made X a great place to be, I want to try and keep the tradition alive and do my bit to fan the embers of a dying fire and offer a blog post on some recent failure stories this week.…

  • The importance of lead generation and pipeline management

    I’ve banged this drum for years. Even the best Daygame is all for naught unless you’re filling the bucket. Note. The bucket can never be repaired. The holes are permanent. It’s character is to leak.  This graphic shows  a realistic one-month (30-day) model for daygame: Key Insights from the Graph What You Must Do for…

  • The problem with Stacking

    For those of you unfamiliar with stacking, it is the term we use to describe the conversational technique designed to keep a conversation moving after the opener. It is an established centre piece at the London Daygame Model museum. A quick but terrible example would be: Opener, Him: “excuse me, I just saw you over…

  • How’s daygame 2026 looking for you? Here’s an update on mine to date

    Daygame season is here. It’s in full swing. All the “I saw you over there and I had to say hello to this girl that I saw with my friends as I sat with them over there” are coming out to stink up Ryneks and shopping centres in well trodden euro cities. Mid-May is here…

  • Nick Krauser is coaching again…

    …. though as usual not much of it. All the old Krausermaniacs here have noted I tend to take on a couple of clients per year for my Five Day Immersion program. Or “residential” as they used to be called. I dread to think what whiny ginger scammer Todd is calling his now. Anyway, I…

  • The Zerzura/Daygame Club

    I’ve been reading a book for the second time. I first read it at university (I borrowed it from the head of department) and less than a week later, was publicly reminded to return the book to him via a department wide email, (“to the student who borrowed my book, please return it immediately”. The…

  • Daygame Gurus #1 Leather jackets and red lipstick

    “As autumn comes I’ll be wearing my leather jacket more often – more r-selection – but when winter rolls around, I’ll wear a cardigan under that leather jacket or swap to a wool overcoat: more K-selection”. Thomas Crown 2023 I’ve always chuckled at Thomas Crown. In The Big Short, Anthony Bourdain uses a halibut analogy…

  • Daygame Gurus #2 Preaching from the hill.

    My thesis is this: daygame applies the wrong software to the wrong hardware. Applying r/K selection theory to daygame is a classic example of guru preaching where baroque, pseudoscientific posturing, wielding debunked science, is applied to the wrong problem. r/K selection theory originates from legitimate population ecology studies (coined by MacArthur and Wilson in the…

  • 2025 Daygame Review

    A bit of a blast from the past these things aren’t they? The good old days, where steadfast devotees pored over their stats, collating their approaches, numbers, socials, dates, lays and analytical trends, success and fuck ups into an epic refection mere moments from the chime of midnight on the dawn of the New Year.…

  • Daygame Lay Report – Belorussian with a twist

    Yes, it’s a lay report but not a recent one. Come to think of it, this is the first lay report I have written for some time, but it actually dates back to February 2024, and it’s also one I didn’t broadcast from the rooftops with the obligatory +1 on X.  So….Broody got another +1…